I’m really sorry I haven’t posted in a long time.  I really can’t think of anything to write.  I have thought of something, though, for this time. 

This week and last week has been very strange for me.  An acquaintance of mine decided he liked me and was going to ask me out.  So, he asked some of his friends in his English class what to get me for Valentine’s day and it eventually got to the entire class.  The class went out and told other tenth graders and they went out and told other tenth graders.  It went on and on until I was sure the entire tenth grade class knew about it. 

At lunch, my friends and I sit close to two different tables that mostly tenth graders sit at.  I didn’t want to change just because one of my friends liked me and half of the school knew it.  So, I kept on sitting at this table, with my back to the guy who liked me.  It was very strange sitting back to back with a guy who liked me, but I kept at it. 

Yesterday, he asked me if I was doing anything on Friday.  I cringed because I have had too many experiences in this and each one had ended in a broken or at least tense friendship.  I was just starting to get to know this guy and he seemed like an ok guy, but God never told me through this whole thing that he was going to be my husband.  I stuck to my guns and said that I thought I was doing something that day.  I really didn’t know, but I had no other way to tell him that I’m not going out with anyone at this time in my life. 

He looked dejected but not defeated, said ok, and walked off. A friend warned me that he would keep after it, and I knew I didn’t want to keep the lie going.  I felt horrible that I hadn’t told him then, so the first time I saw him today, I went up to him and told him that I didn’t think teenagers should be dating and that I thought the teen years were years to grow closer to God, not to a guy.  The entire time, I was so nervous I couldn’t catch my breath I was so nervous.  I didn’t want to say the wrong thing and ruin our growing friendship.

I said all that so say this:  dating completely skips over the friendship stage and moves straight to romance.  It forgets getting to know another person’s personality and goes straight to getting to know another person’s body.  I couldn’t tell you anything about this guy other than the fact that he is on the quiz bowl team and apparently likes it.  If I were to even think about going out with anyone (not that I would, I think dating a person you’ve known and been good friends with forever is wrong.) without knowing more about them.  A LOT more.  I have no clue as to what he thinks about God and Jesus except that he goes to a church that isn’t exactly being very churchly.  In order to love someone, you have to know them. 

Love in Christ,

Kelsea

Now, I’m coming back because I lost interest in that something or someone else.  How would that make you feel?

Now imagine that you aren’t just a blog reader, but that you are one of my very best friends.  How many of you have had your best friends taken away by the dating game?  How many of you have been the one who was caught up in the game only to become disillusioned with it and come back to find that all of your friends have moved on?  I personally have been the victim of the former.  But this isn’t a sob-story.  This is a warning of one of the fatalities of dating gone wrong.  This is an inevitable part of most relationships.  This defect is not as deadly as some of the others, but it causes pain and emotional turmoil that shouldn’t be an issue in our lives right now because we have many more important things to get involved in and grow in.

As teenagers, we tend to spend most of our time worrying about problems with our friends that normally had roots in the fact that our friend left us for some guy and now she’s crawling back for help.  At least that’s the way it is in my high school.  What we should be doing is getting to know God better and having a strong relationship with Him. 

People like to ask, “Well, if they don’t date, how are they going to know who God wants them to marry?”  First of all, it’s not like they are going to get married in sixth grade!  And I’m not planning on getting married in the ninth grade or anytime soon.  Second of all, if they would spend the time they spend texting a boyfriend or going out with a boyfriend or whatever they do to spend time with their boyfriends with God and getting to know Him better, you wouldn’t have to worry about missing the guy God wants because you will be so close to God that it’s like knowing what your best friend is thinking now.  You will know.  God will make sure of it.  Besides, if you’re too busy with your boyfriend later in college or wherever, you may just miss who God has picked out for you.  Wouldn’t that be a tragedy?

Why add the extra pain for something that will not last?

• I will not give any of my heart away until I know it is the one that God has chosen for me to marry.
• I will look at guys as brothers and not potential husbands. I will treat them with purity and respect so that if either of our future spouses were watching they would be pleased. (This is called the “eyeball” rule by Eric Ludy.)
• I will be careful of the effect my words as a female could have on a guy. I will not use charm or flirtations to get them to do something.
• I will not seek complements or flattery but those I do get I will respond to with humility and grace.
• I will show respect to the young men in my life and let them lead. I will submit to Godly male leadership.  Women today are not at all submissive.  They take offense when a man tries to be a gentleman, calling it sexist.  It has gotten to the point where our roles as men and women have switched, but it’s not supposed to be that way.  I could write a whole post on this, but I think I’ll wait a while. 
• I will not allow thoughts into my mind that are in any way lustful, impure, or sensual, but I will fill my mind with Christ and the cross. Making every thought obedient to Christ.  This is a hard one.  All girls, myself included, seem to have this problem.  Many times I catch myself looking at a guy and asking if he’s hot or whatever.  I have to mentally slap myself in order to stop it. 
• I will not lead on guys by flirting and charm. If there are any issues with guys liking me or the think I like them I will clear it up right away.
• I will treat all single guys like married men because someday they most likely will be.

So there you have it. I would encourage all of you reading this to make some of your own resolutions or promises on this issue. I am pretty sure that this list will grow over time as I have more and more life experiences and know more of what I need to be fighting against. May the Lord bless you all. In Christ, Olivia <><

If you are like me you have heard this verse a few times before. And for those of you who have read I Kissed Dating Goodbye you are familiar with this verse. We tell others and ourselves to not “awaken love before it’s time”, but do we truly understand this? I am not sure if I even do, or should I say “did”.
See I have tried to make promises a few times before that I would not have crushes and try to keep my mind off guys, ect. We all know all females how extremely hard this task is, and I will admit I have failed many times in the last year or so that I have decided to try to keep my heart pure. I admit to being a day dreamer and a curious person. I am always wondering what my life will be like in the future and I try to imagine it in different ways.
I have a very close friend that is very similar to me in this way. She, like myself is in favor of courtship and is saving her first kiss for the man she marries. She also struggles a lot with her emotions and having crushes. She admits to being too trusting of guys and just ending up hurt, even though she hasn’t given anything away physically and hasn’t even been in a dating relationship.

A few weeks ago God had made it clear to me that I needed to stop reading and writing love stories because I was falling in love (I know that sounds strange) with the men in those stories. I was giving my heart away to guys that don’t even exist and I knew that was wrong. Then shortly after that God also started telling me that I needed to make sure that everything I do glorifies Him. (You can read more about that on my blog.) I started making some resolutions on different things and I made a bunch on how I relate to guys (which with Keslea’s permission I will share them in a future post).
So when I was talking to my close friend last week I asked her to consider to join me in a choice I had made: To not give any of my heart away until I know it is the one that God has chosen for me to marry. As I said to her, this wont be an easy thing at all but I believe it is what God is calling me to do. I have tried to do stuff like this before but I think that this time it might actually work, as long as I rely on God’s power instead of my own. Also this time I have my friend there to be my partner in prayer and my accountability and encouragement.

I also want to challenge you to do this too. As I said before, it isn’t going to be easy, but it is something that will be rewarding. To stand at the altar on your wedding day and to know that the man in front of you is getting your entire heart will be a wonderful feeling. To keep love sleeping in our day and age it a very tough task, but it is not going to go without reward. And with God’s power we can do anything!

Olivia E.

I also have real problems with this.  I think all girls do to an extent.  It’s really something that we can’t help.  On our own.  That doesn’t make it any less of a sin or any more acceptable.  When Solomon sayed that we should not awaken love, that pretty much means that girls should not be all over guys when there is no way that they are going to be marrying that person, especially at age 16 or younger.  In other words, it is not time for us to date. 

Kelsea

In Joshua Harris’s book, I Kissed Dating Goodbye, he tells the story of a little boy and a little girl who wanted to make a trade.  Her bag of candy for his bag of marbles.  The night before they make the trade, the little boy decides there are three marbles he just can’t part with, so he takes them out and puts them under his pillow.  The next day, he gives her his bag of marbles minus three.  She gives him her candy.  The girl knows nothing about the other three marbles.  The little boy has a hard time sleeping, though.  He keeps wondering if she gave him all of her candy. 

What I want to know is have we given God all of our “marbles”?  Or are we wondering if He’s given us all of his?  

Until we’ve given God everything we have, we will never be able to know God’s best.  That means letting go of the worldly attitudes.  That means letting go of the foolish ways of the world and holding on to Him.  That means getting a new, Godly attitude about things. 

In the next few weeks, I hope to go back to why I started this in the first place instead of being a book critic. =) I recommend that you get a hold of I Kissed Dating Goodbye because I plan on going through it chapter by chapter sometime soon. 

Love in Christ,

Kelsea

You know those girls who look up into the eyes of her boyfriend and can usually get him to do just about anything.  The girls who hang all over their boyfriend kind of like a monkey.  Is this just your “average teenage girl” that you would expect from all girls?  Or is it something we as teenagers need to try to fix?   

We can also flirt with our clothes.  Suggestive clothing such as scooping necks, rediculously short skirts, and the like encourage guys to think in ways that aren’t glorifying to God and that make them sin by lusting.  Yes, they should gaurd their minds against it, but as their sisters in Christ,  we shouldn’t make them stumble.  When we do, we sin just as bad.  Besides, those clothes don’t glorify God.  The more you love God, the less you should want to show of yourself.  “So whether you eat or drink or whatever you do, do it all for the glory of God.”  1 Cor. 10:31

Did you know that we can flirt by how we talk and laugh?  Some girls get that high pitched girly voice whenever they want someone to notice them.   Other girls laugh a lot and really loud or really girly and giggly.  Some do both.   This gives guys a suggestive message.  It may seem petty, but you really need to be careful about what you do with your voice.

The smallest things can make a guy stumble.  Something as seemingly simple as a girl pulling up a tank top can be a stumbling block to someone.  Sometimes, they can’t help it anymore than we can when we see a “hot” guy.  It’s our sinful nature. 

That doesn’t mean we can’t do anything about it.  With God all things are possible.  We just have to ask God to take away that sinful, lustful spirit and put a pure one in.  It’ll take some painful refining, but if it helps our brothers in Christ to not stumble, then it is worth it.  It’ll also take some work on our part, or nothing will happen.  At a Rebelution conference,  Brett Harris said, “In order to change something, you have to change something.”  You can’t say you’re going to pray every night before you go to bed and then go to bed at the same unruly hour of the morning you usually do.  You’ll fall asleep in the middle of the prayer!  Of course, the change I’m talking about is on a much more complicated scale than making yourself go to bed a little earlier.  I’m talking about a change in heart and it’s going to take a lot of work and a lot of help.

With God’s help, we can do it, though. 

Love in Christ,

Kelsea

1. God the Father was crucified with Jesus.

Because God’s eyes are pure and cannot look upon sin, the Bible says that God would not look upon His own beloved Son as He hung on the Cross, carrying our sins (Habakkuk 1:13; Matthew 27:45).

2. God is limited by His love and cannot practice justice.

The Bible declares that God’s love and His justice are two sides of the same coin — equally a part of the personality and the character of God (Isaiah 61:8; Hosea 2:19).

3. On the Cross, God forgave all of humanity, whether they repent or not. Some choose a relationship with Him, but He forgives them all regardless.

Jesus explained that only those who come to Him will be saved (John 14:6).

4. Hierarchical structures, whether they are in the Church or in the government, are evil.

Our God is a God of order (Job 25:2).

5. God will never judge people for their sins.

The Word of God repeatedly invites people to escape from the judgment of God by believing in Jesus Christ, His Son (Romans 2:16; 2 Timothy 4:1-3).

6. There is not a hierarchical structure in the Godhead, just a circle of unity.

The Bible says that Jesus submitted to the will of the Father. This doesn’t mean that one Person is higher or better than the other; just unique. Jesus said, “I came to do the will of Him who sent me. I am here to obey my Father.” Jesus also said, “I will send you the Holy Spirit” (John 4:34, 6:44, 14:26, 15:26).

7. God submits to human wishes and choices.

Far from God submitting to us, Jesus said, “Narrow is the way that leads to eternal life.” We are to submit to Him in all things, for His glory and because of what He has accomplished for us (Matthew 7:13-15).

8. Justice will never take place because of love.

The Bible teaches that when God’s love is rejected, and when the offer of salvation and forgiveness is rejected, justice must take place or God has sent Jesus Christ to die on the cross for nothing (Matthew 12:20; Romans 3:25-26).

9. There is no such a thing as eternal judgment or torment in hell.

Jesus’ own description of hell is vivid … it cannot be denied (Luke 12:5, 16:23).

10. Jesus is walking with all people in their different journeys to God, and it doesn’t matter which way you get to Him.

Jesus said, “I am the way, the truth, and the life, and no one will come to the Father but by me” (John 14:6).

11. Jesus is constantly being transformed along with us.

Jesus, who dwells in the splendor of heaven, sits at the right hand of God, reigning and ruling the universe. The Bible says, “In Him there is no change, for He is yesterday, today, and forever” (Hebrews 11:12, 13:8; James 1:17).

12. There is no need for faith or reconciliation with God because everyone will make it to heaven.

Jesus said, “Only those who believe in me will have eternal life” (John 3:15, 3:36, 5:24, 6:40).

13. The Bible is not true because it reduces God to paper.

The Bible is God-breathed. Sure, there were many men through 1,800 years who put pen to paper (so to speak), each from different professions and different backgrounds, but the Holy Spirit infused their work with God’s words. These men were writing the same message from Genesis to Revelation. If you want to read more about the place of Christ in the Scripture, read “We Preach Christ” (2 Timothy 3:16).

I do agree that there are many things that pull us away from God, but just because something doesn’t give out a Godly message, doesn’t make it wrong. And just because something refers or has witchcraft in it, it doesn’t make it wrong. And just because the author isn’t Christian, it doesn’t make it wrong.

What about school? It doesn’t give out a Godly message. But it isn’t wrong. On the contrary, it helps us become educated and successful with our lives. And there are also many books that don’t give out a Godly message, but they aren’t wrong.

Look at the Chronicles of Narnia series. It has witchcraft in it, but it doesn’t go against God. It actually sends out a Godly message using witchcraft. Would you say that that was wrong?

Non-Christian people have accomplished and written many things throughout time and are still. I’m sure you’ve read many, many books by non-Christian authors. So is every single one of those books wrong?

Also, vampires are completely fantasy. There is no such thing as vampires. They are simply a figment of imagination. Yes, they suck blood, but how exactly is that wrong? Well, when they suck the blood and molest their victims and/or kill them, I understand, but a lot of books and shows depict vampires as creatures that just suck the blood to survive, and then leave them alone.

I agree that just because something doesn’t put out a “Godly” message doesn’t mean it’s wrong.  I mean, if it’s promoting ungodly issues like homosexuality, abortion, or what ever, that’s wrong.  And while I’m talking about it, some things that claim to put out a Godly message can be wrong too. 

Take The Shack for example.  I haven’t read it and I don’t plan too.  I have heard some people who have said that this book is better than the Bible because now they understand the Trinity.  They understand a twisted version of the Trinity.  The author believes in the all roads lead to heaven thing.  It also puts God on our level. 

No, school doesn’t put out a Godly message anymore, either.  It used to, though.  Until you get to things that clearly go against God’s Word, like evolution, it isn’t wrong.  But, we have to go.  We don’t have a choice.  Unless you are homeschooled, but for some of us, that isn’t an option at the time either. 

Also, witchcraft that people can try to copy is wrong.  People all over the world are trying to copy the magic in the Harry Potter series.  Rowling herself said that she looked up spells in a spell book or something like that to make them more authentic.  That is wrong.  In the Chronicles of Narnia, you can’t touch a ring and go to another world where there is an evil queen who has cast a spell over the land making it always winter.  Everybody knows that.  I don’t think there is anybody who is trying to copy that or anything else in those books.  But that is putting too many but’s and what if’s on it.  No witchcraft at all is best.   

Anyway, there are a ton of things out there that aren’t bad, they just weren’t written by Christian authors for a Christian purpose.  What makes it wrong is it’s content.  In the Twilight series (now, this isn’t the only one that has issues.  It’s just the one that everybody seems to be reading right now.), Edward, a vampire, is portrayed as a “good guy” and if he isn’t supposed to be that, he’s the character everybody is supposed to like.  We all know that if vampires were real, they wouldn’t be good or that everybody would want to be friends with.  Every vampire I’ve ever heard of in stories and such have been bad and scary creatures.  Now, all of a sudden, we have good vampires.  Isaiah 5:20 says “Woe to those who call evil good and good evil, who put darkness for light and light for darkness, who put bitter for sweet, and sweet for bitter!”  If that isn’t clear enough, I don’t know what is!  If we start thinking that vampires, for example, are good, when they are clearly bad, then woe to us!   

And yes, I have read books by non-Christian authors.  MANY of them.  But I don’t let anybody tell me that I had to read something that went against God’s Word.  I don’t read the Harry Potter series or the Twilight series or anything else.  And this year, I have challenged myself to read only Christian books from good, Christian authors, such as Al Lacy and his wife, Joanna.  In fact, I haven’t read secular books in so long that just a minute ago, I was trying to think of an example for the books that weren’t wrong but weren’t Christian and  I couldn’t think of a single one!!!  I was happy to find that out! =)

So, I hope and pray that this answers some questions that some of you might have about the series and others like it.  I challenge ya’ll to try what I’m trying: don’t read any secular books for a whole year unless required to by a teacher.  And then, it can’t be a book that has witchcraft or other things that are out and out wrong like that in it.  Refuse to read those.  I’d love to hear from those of you who are doing it!  Tell me of the Christian books you have read after a while of doing it!  I’ll put them on the book list so other people can see it.  I’ll look forward to hearing from you!!

Love in Christ,                                                                                                                                          

Kelsea

Maybe now you’re thinking, “okay, so purity is good for me…in an ‘eat your Brussels sprouts’ kinda way…”  No!  With the measure of punishment for sin, there is also reward for doing what’s right.

Proverbs 2:6-8 – For the LORD gives wisdom, and from his mouth come knowledge and understanding.  He holds victory in store for the upright, he is a shield to those whose walk is blameless, for he guards the course of the just and protects the way of his faithful ones.

God gives wisdom to those who seek it, He is a shield to the blameless, guards those who are faithful to Him.  God isn’t all about discipline and “thou shalt not”, He’s a God of justice, yes, but He is also the God of love, of happiness, of goodness.

However, we have to be following Him before He will guide and shield us.  We must surrender to Him, our will, our desires, our life.

A friend once told me, “If you want to make God laugh, tell Him your plans.”  Our ways are not His and He may have something completely different than what you want, but His way is always best.  We can’t see what’s going to happen even the next second.  God, on the other hand knows what will happen a million years from now.  Personally, I think it is best to trust God with our futures.  But that’s not always easy.  As humans, we naturally (not that it’s right) want to be in control.  We can’t stand letting other people take charge.  It’s the same way with surrendering to God.  We don’t want to because we don’t like letting others take control.  That is why we have to work so much harder at it.  But it is well worth it!

Being pure isn’t just about avoiding bad things, like STDs, punishment, pregnancy…  It’s about gaining everything good that is just waiting for us to snatch it.  Freedom.  Maybe you think being able to do what you want is freedom.  No, John 8:34 – Jesus replied, “I tell you the truth, everyone who sins is a slave to sin.”

We have a choice, be a slave to sin, and be destroyed, or be a slave to righteousness (God), and inherit everlasting life. 

Romans 6:22 – But now that you have been set free from sin [talking to Christians here] and have become slaves to God, the benefit you reap leads to holiness, and the result is eternal life.

We have two choices, be slaves to sin, or be slaves to God.  Now, you might think being God’s slave sounds very unlike what Christianity should be, but it’s not at all what you’d think a slave would be.  God doesn’t make us his slaves, He doesn’t force us to do His will.

Being a slave to God’s will is something we put upon ourselves.  Being a slave to God is basically the same as saying we surrender everything to him, even our own will.  Maybe that’s a scary thought, how can we trust that He won’t say “Okay, now go move to New Mexico, wear floor-length gray dresses and never leave your house unless absolutely necessary.”?

God put laws in place to keep us safe.  Every law He placed that has something to do with our sexuality is to keep us safe.  One man, one woman, for life.  We shouldn’t just keep our bodies pure, but our minds, our hearts.

Romans 2:16 – All these things will happen on the day when God, through Christ Jesus, will judge people’s secret thoughts. The Good News that I preach says this.

Imagine this:  You are standing before the Lord on Judgment Day.  You see playing before you not just the outward sins like lying or stealing, but every wrong thought, every sinful intention.  As they play, you see tears rolling down Jesus’ face, every single one of them bringing pain to Him, your own dear friend and comforter.  On His back you see the scars, one for every one of those thoughts.

It’s not “just a thought“, the same as it’s not “just a kiss“, not “just sex”.  It’s all sin, it’s all wrong, even the thoughts that nobody sees but you and God.

2 Corinthians 10:5b – and we take captive every thought to make it obedient to Christ.

1 Corinthians 6:18-20 – Flee from sexual immorality. All other sins a man commits are outside his body, but he who sins sexually sins against his own body.  Do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit, who is in you, whom you have received from God? You are not your own;  you were bought at a price. Therefore honor God with your body.

If God truly lives within us, then we do not belong to ourselves.  He bought us, with the life of His own, His only, son Jesus.  We aren’t just defiling ourselves when we commit sexual immorality, we’re defiling God himself, for we are His temple, His children.

When we became Christians, we became His children.  Think about when a child of a human parent does something wrong.  It reflects on the parents.  There used to be a t-shirt going around that said, “Don’t blame me.  Blame my parents.”  It’s the same way with God.  If we call ourselves His children, and yet we do something wrong (e.g. sexual immorality), how do others take that?  Sin weakens our witness as Christians.  Especially sin that are so big and so bold as sexual immorality. 

Does any child really want to hurt their parents?  I haven’t met any that have.  Why would we want to insult our heavenly Father?  Imagine a father who has just found out that his beloved daughter has made a horrible decision and that she has done some sexually immoral things.  Imagine a stooped over, weeping man, lamenting over the horrible decisions that she had made.  He still loves her, but she has cut him deep.  Now imagine that at least a hundred times worse and you have how God feels when one of His own strays.   

1 Corinthians 6:15-16 – Do you not know that your bodies are members of Christ himself? Shall I then take the members of Christ and unite them with a prostitute? Never! Do you not know that he who unites himself with a prostitute is one with her in body? For it is said, “The two will become one flesh.”

Our bodies are part of Christ himself. 

Purity isn’t like a side issue with God.  “Oh, I’ll be pure until I feel like I’m old enough to have sex.” “Everyone’s doing it!”  “Almost nobody’s pure, it’s impossible to do, anyway.”  Maybe some of those have run through your head before, maybe they are right now.  God doesn’t care about what’s “convenient” for us.  No matter how mature, how much pressure you get from friends, how much you want to, God’s Word always should come first.

1 Thessalonians 4:3-8

It is God’s will that you should be sanctified: that you should avoid sexual immorality; that each of you should learn to control his own body in a way that is holy and honorable, not in passionate lust like the heathen, who do not know God; and that in this matter no one should wrong his brother or take advantage of him. The Lord will punish men for all such sins, as we have already told you and warned you. For God did not call us to be impure, but to live a holy life.  Therefore, he who rejects this instruction does not reject man but God, who gives you his Holy Spirit.

God doesn’t take impurity lightly.  “Oh, John Doe slipped up.. Ah, well, a little bandage, all better, you’re forgiven.”  No.  God isn’t like some half blind and deaf, rich grandfather who only sees what you have him see.  God is all-knowing, all-powerful.  He knows every thought, every motive, every sinful intention.

All of us are required, if we are Christian, to not just stay away from sexual immorality, but to hate it, to not even let the desires have way in our minds. 

Matthew 5:28 But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart.

Whoever even looks in lust!  This isn’t just talking about guys, but girls too.  You might think that that’s impossible…not even to look at someone with lust?  Jesus did not sin, not once.  Looking lustfully IS a sin, and we are required to not do it.

1 Peter 1:15-16  But just as he who called you is holy, so be holy in all you do; for it is written: “Be holy, because I am holy.”

Ephesians 5:3-4  But among you there must not be even a hint of sexual immorality, or of any kind of impurity, or of greed, because these are improper for God’s holy people. Nor should there be obscenity, foolish talk or coarse joking, which are out of place, but rather thanksgiving.

Now, I could go into gross detail on those last two verses alone, but I think for now you get my point.

Love in Christ,

Joanna

Trey Edwards left a comment on the last post asking my thoughts on intamacy in a relationship that is obviously going to lead to marriage.  I think that two people who aren’t officially promised to each other should avoid anything that would arouse a “unfitting desire” as John Piper would say.  2 Timothy 2:22 says, “Flee youhful passions and pusue righteousness.”  Romans 13:14 says, “Make no provision for the flesh, to gratify its desires.  

But, should the question be, “Is it wrong to kiss?”  Or should it be, “Does intamacy, even if it’s only pecking each other’s lips every once in a while, glorifying to God?  Will my witness be strengthened if I do this?”  I think the later is more fitting.  

I hope this answers your question, Trey.  I searched in the Bible, on John Piper’s website, and asked adults what they think before trying to answer.  I tried to educate myself on this before answering so that it could be more trustworthy and it could answer your question more thouroughly.  If anyone has any more questions, feel free to ask.  I’ll try to answer as best as I can. =)

Love in Christ,

Kelsea